The symptoms were all there. I had just ignored them.
The first appeared shortly after arriving in Greece: I wanted to make a meatloaf for dinner. That was followed by a near frantic quest the following week to find and buy brown sugar, oatmeal and raisins to make cookies.
I am not one to lust for the kitchen. I’m the
have-bag-will-travel-at-a-moment’s-notice gal. Ready in a nano-second to try a new restaurant. The one who goes into the village bakery for a loaf of bread and comes out with a bag of cookies as well. Bake cookies. . .at home? Really?!
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A road trip through the Greek Peloponnese is a favorite outing |
Yet, there I was in the kitchen having traded my travel guidebook for a cookbook; my camera for a cookie pan.
I realized then, that this traveler was suffering from a need to nest.
Nest: a home where people live.
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The Stone House on the Hill from our olive grove |
That self-realization may have been the biggest surprise that came out of our ‘summer of slogging’.
For those not with us in recent months: we got rid of our life’s accumulations, sold our U.S. home of 30 years, filled two storage units with our remaining treasures, packed an enormous pile of suitcases (by our travel standards) and came to Greece for a full-time expat adventure.
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Ancient pathways to discovery - Monemvasia, Greece |
While starting the new chapter has been an exciting time, we found that closing out the last wasn't. During our last few weeks in the Pacific Northwest our day-to-day necessities were kept in plastic storage bins and suitcases. We slept on a mattress on the floor. Dinners became a stream of 'Happy Hour' outings as nothing remained in the kitchen with which to cook. Lunch was often a cellophane wrapped sandwich from Starbucks.
We had a roof over our heads but for all practical purposes we really were ‘nest-less near Seattle’.
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Our Casa Kirkland January 2016 |
Our last two days of that chapter were spent in a at a hotel a few miles from what had been our house. It was similar to a ‘staycation’ but more appropriately named by
The Scout, it was
a ‘leavecation’.
“Welcome to Bellevue! Have you stayed with us before?” asked the chipper desk clerk at the Marriott Hotel. ‘Well, no. Until today, we used to live just down the road.’
The Three E's: Euphoria, Exhaustion and Expectations
Those ex pats to whom we turned to for advice and encouragement described feeling euphoric at the new sense of freedom this new lifestyle brings. I hate to admit that I am still waiting for that euphoria to hit. The reality was that we arrived in Greece feeling,
well, . . .exhausted.
I'I didn't shed a tear (somewhat to my surprise) as we drove away from our Kirkland home. It was such a relief to be done with cleaning it out and selling it that if I came close to euphoria that might have been the moment.
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Our new garden spring 2017 at The Stone House on the Hill |
By that point our focus was expectations for Greece: how large the new plants would be, the size of our olive harvest, the type of car we'd buy.
Reality can dash those expectations as quickly as exhaustion can quash euphoria. Many plants had been baked into the ground by the summer’s unusually hot temperatures. Even those heat-tolerant plants were varying shades of brown and tan. The olive crop so small we considered not harvesting at all. And you know from the previous post what an adventure we had buying a car.
However. . .
Those Sunny Skies ~ And An Indian Summer
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Nesting on the hillside in the Peloponnese |
That same sun that had baked the garden only weeks earlier had mellowed by the time we arrived in October. It continues to make one of the loveliest Indian Summer backdrops to this new life that you can imagine.
We've replanted the garden. Flowers and vegetables have already begun flourishing. Our olive harvest was small, but we had one. Our
Hi Ho Silver has already had his inaugural road trip.
Oh, yes. . .I also made that meatloaf. And I baked cookies (having successfully found two of those three ingredients and substituting Craisens for raisins). I’ve puttered, or
pottered as my British friends here would say, in the garden on a near daily basis.
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Our village, Agios Nikolaos, slows for the winter |
Now, after nearly two months in our Greek home, we are back into the rhythms of village life. Olive harvest is in full swing now in the Messinian Mani marking the end of autumn, many restaurants and tavernas have closed for the winter. Just as the village slows its pace, so have we.
We have rested and nested.
But those of you who've been with us for awhile must know that means for us. . .
It's Time to Fly!
“A bird in a nest is secure, but that is not why God gave it wings.”
- Matshona Dhliwayo
We had different responses to our summer of slogging: I suffered from a need to nest while The Scout grew restless. We had far too little travel. Travel planning came to a screeching halt. So while my nose has been in cookbooks, his has been in guidebooks.
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Pyramids, Cairo, Egypt |
Since part of the reason for relocating here was to take advantage of travel on this side of the Atlantic, it is time to do just that! With low airfares and close destinations, it is difficult to decide which direction to head. Did you know it takes less time to get from Athens to Egypt than from Seattle to San Francisco? You can be there in less than a couple of hours.
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The Nile as it flows through Cairo, Egypt |
And that fact won the coin toss. We are heading back to Egypt the end of this week. We're going to spend most of our time in Aswan, a new destination for us to explore, but must spend a couple days in Cairo - one of our very favorite cities!
[Note: Timing is everything. I'd just finished writing this post when news broke on this side of the world about the despicable terrorist attack at the mosque in the Sinai. We've not changed or cancelled our plans to visit Egypt as result of that incident. Our feeling is that life is rather a crap shoot these days no matter where in the world you are; you could be a victim of mass murder while attending a concert in Las Vegas or while attending a small church in rural Texas or while praying at a mosque in Egypt.]
We know many of you have made lifestyle and life location changes recently and we are curious about what you discovered about yourself as you transitioned to your 'new normal'? We’d love to hear about them in the comments below or shoot us an email!
As always, thanks for being a part of this new journey of ours – the time you spend with us is always appreciated.
Happy and Safe Travels to you and yours ~
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